Post by fallenangelboy on Nov 9, 2005 20:02:00 GMT
Sorry I just need somewhere to vent right now :
Rick on College : I dunno I just really haven't felt like going to College lately. One of my supposed friends hasn't spoken to me since we started back a few months ago for the most stupid of reasons. Apparently I wrote that I liked her in her journal - I don't remember doing that and I'm not stupid enough to do that.
Also she blames me for the fact she had to spend three weeks re-editing a project we did together. On the last day we had to do the project she decided to bring her new boyfriend into College and left me to do all the Work. Plus she didn't bother to get in touch with me (she had my mobile no. & e-mail address) to tell me the Project needed re-editing or to ask if I could come into College and help her.
So I just figure she can go rot for all I care.
Rick on wanting to do the right thing : Right I'll have to give you a quick background on this. During the Summer Holiday the Assistant Manager of the Cancer Research Store I work at brought her two nephews a few times. They're 10 & 11 and I hit it off with them straight away (what can I say - I'm a big kid at heart lol).
Anyway over the months that I've known them I've found out a fair bit about them. Their mother rejected them so they're now living with their aunt (my boss) and her mother. The eldest of the two apparently acts out a fair bit at home and I really just wanna help get him on the right track.
I think the problem with him is phsycological (typo?) because of what happened with his Mother I think he uses his bad behaviour as a way to prevent people getting close to him so he doesn't get hurt again. Yet he seems quite open with me - he even hugged me once. I just think that if I could get a chance to talk with him more often I could help him. I think he needs someone he feels he can trust to be there for him. He's told me he doesn't like his aunt and I don't think he likes his nan or brother much either.
The thing is - I don't think his aunt helps matters . She always seems to be scolding the eldest boy and praising the youngest. I think if she were to praise the eldest boy more even for just the small positive things he does then maybe it'd help the situation. I always make sure I praise him if he helps me when he comes into the store.
I dunno .... How do I help him without coming across as insulting or weird ?
I just .... gah .... I just dunno what to do >.<
Rick on College : I dunno I just really haven't felt like going to College lately. One of my supposed friends hasn't spoken to me since we started back a few months ago for the most stupid of reasons. Apparently I wrote that I liked her in her journal - I don't remember doing that and I'm not stupid enough to do that.
Also she blames me for the fact she had to spend three weeks re-editing a project we did together. On the last day we had to do the project she decided to bring her new boyfriend into College and left me to do all the Work. Plus she didn't bother to get in touch with me (she had my mobile no. & e-mail address) to tell me the Project needed re-editing or to ask if I could come into College and help her.
So I just figure she can go rot for all I care.
Rick on wanting to do the right thing : Right I'll have to give you a quick background on this. During the Summer Holiday the Assistant Manager of the Cancer Research Store I work at brought her two nephews a few times. They're 10 & 11 and I hit it off with them straight away (what can I say - I'm a big kid at heart lol).
Anyway over the months that I've known them I've found out a fair bit about them. Their mother rejected them so they're now living with their aunt (my boss) and her mother. The eldest of the two apparently acts out a fair bit at home and I really just wanna help get him on the right track.
I think the problem with him is phsycological (typo?) because of what happened with his Mother I think he uses his bad behaviour as a way to prevent people getting close to him so he doesn't get hurt again. Yet he seems quite open with me - he even hugged me once. I just think that if I could get a chance to talk with him more often I could help him. I think he needs someone he feels he can trust to be there for him. He's told me he doesn't like his aunt and I don't think he likes his nan or brother much either.
The thing is - I don't think his aunt helps matters . She always seems to be scolding the eldest boy and praising the youngest. I think if she were to praise the eldest boy more even for just the small positive things he does then maybe it'd help the situation. I always make sure I praise him if he helps me when he comes into the store.
I dunno .... How do I help him without coming across as insulting or weird ?
I just .... gah .... I just dunno what to do >.<
