Assurance

[Dani California]

Just needed to vent and maybe some assurance. I have a friend that I've known since Kindergarten. Well we've always been like sisters and we did everything together. Well once we got to high school we went to different schools, but were still good friends. Our junior year she decided that she wanted to rebel. She met this guy on the internet from Seattle and we live in Tennessee so nobody trusted him. Well he came down here and she got pregnant and he went back to Seattle, this all happened in a week. Now I was very supportive of her. She gave the baby up for adoption. Well 2 years have gone by and she hasn't learned from her mistakes and she's trying to drag me into her crap. She wants me to go out and party and yeah I like to party but my priorities come first.(Yuck I sound like my old teachers) School comes first and if I have enough time then I'll party.Now I've always believed that God puts friends in our life for a purpose and when they've served their purpose the friendship fades away. She knows I believe this and I think she's just trying to hold onto our friendship, but I'm trying to let it go. Now all I want to know is am I being a jerk...do I need to hang onto the friendship or am I right by letting it go?

[JennyM]

God also says that bad associations spoil useful habits. if she's bringing you down, maybe its time to find friends who will encourage you. u dont need to cut her out, but limit your time with her...

[~*Claire*~]

if u have done everything u can to help her then u have done everything u can hun! i think ur right in letting her go or as Jenny said limit ur time with her. coz u have been supportive towards her and she still isnt listening or taking it in properly. Maybe once her phase thing wares of she will realise what kinda friend u have been to

[~Liz~]

Well, I really don't know what to say I'm sorry.