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Post by Kate on Feb 9, 2007 13:11:26 GMT
i have never been dumped before. I loved her so much, it got to the point where I wanted to start doing something that is not a good thing to do. I ended up cutting myself over it, I know what the hell Kate. But I just love her so much, and she dumped me for another girl...what the hell is up with that? Then I had to go and ruin a great friendship...we are both in the wrong here...I just don't know what to do anymore.
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Post by saskia on Feb 9, 2007 18:58:14 GMT
Love is not easy... Good luck, Kate
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Post by hollysmyhero on Feb 10, 2007 6:34:47 GMT
I'm sorry sweetie. I'm here for ya if you ever need someone to talk to. But I have to say one thing. NO ONE...(let me say that again) N.O.O.N.E!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! is worth cutting over. I know that love sucks but sweetie,,,don't do that to urself. I know how you feel trust me! But if she did this to you then she's not worth it. She's not worth your pain.
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Post by Breezy on Feb 12, 2007 16:07:33 GMT
i have never been dumped before. I loved her so much, it got to the point where I wanted to start doing something that is not a good thing to do. I ended up cutting myself over it, I know what the hell Kate. But I just love her so much, and she dumped me for another girl...what the hell is up with that? Then I had to go and ruin a great friendship...we are both in the wrong here...I just don't know what to do anymore. I'm not going to come on and say I know exactly how you feel, because each situation varies....but I feel for you and I've been through something similiar, and I'm sure everyone on here has or will...... and I am so sorry. Please dont cut yourself anymore, okay sweetie? It may seem rational and worth it at the time...but later on it isnt. I got dumped over the summer....and he was my first love and it hurt like hell. I bawled and threw up for days.....I lost so much weight and got so incredibly sick emotionally and physically. It really took a toll on my health. So I know how that feels. It sucks. So, she will always be your first love...you'll always care for her. Just like I'll always hold a special place in my heart for my ex, too, Stephen. I'm so sorry she dumped you for another girl...and as cliche as this is: it's most certainly her loss, not yours. Though you may disagree, because I do the exact same thing....because you wind up missing them. If you ever need to PM me, feel free, okay? I hope everything works out for you, Kate. Best of luck!  |
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Post by FreezePiper on Apr 11, 2007 2:42:44 GMT
im sorry sweetie... I used to cut myself when I was in high school and before I had my son ... I know its hard... but I believe it will get better... it just takes some time.
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Post by ~JJ~ (Janietra) on Apr 15, 2007 19:38:50 GMT
I think u sound like a nice person... If she dumped u it is her own personal loose!@#$%^&*())_+
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Post by hollys generation on Apr 17, 2007 19:34:01 GMT
Hey Hun.
Love isnt easy. It never is.
Dont cut yourself over somebody even if they mean that much to you. Its not worth it. Trust me I've been there && ended up in a right mess. Which is why I aint been on here alot lately lol.
Ive been dumped before not that long ago && I cut myself then. I later realised it wasnt worth the effort cuz I then found another great guy. It just shows someone else will come along && make you happy.
Please stop cutting. Its not good.
Love Ash x
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Post by ~Liz~ on Jun 1, 2007 21:47:35 GMT
Awww sweetie. I'm so sorry. I can relate to your situation. It has happened to me before as well. I'm so sorry that it happened to you. But please don't cut over it, it's not worth the pain. If she dumped you for somebody else, then she played you. I'm so sorry hun! I wish I could give you a big hug. I hope that everything will be ok. If you need to talk just send me a PM and I will answer it!
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Post by joellafaith on Nov 2, 2009 5:25:27 GMT
never been dumped so i dont know
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Post by raven32007 on Nov 4, 2009 12:04:59 GMT
we only went out for a month, and we were some what close in a very personal way I think that's all I can say about the closeness without violating any rules about conduct on the board, language I mean. any who... one time she just said, "can you just wait for me to call you? "
I said "yea" I excepted this then once she called and said oops I didn't mean to call you.
so she never said that she didn't want to talk to me . I feel as though the world has ended for me. I have never been that close to someone in such a short period of time.
So I stayed at home, and have been at home for a while, feeling sorry for my self, grieving if you will. I know it seems wierd , but its almost like, if I can't talk to someone anymore, well like I lost them, but I haven't. I feel very upset I feel really angry, and sometimes I yell at people. They don't deserve it, but I don't safe place to break down, and or yell , or hit rock bottom like piper did on that episode in season 4 hell hath no furry. I know that might sound wierd , and hope I'm not going crazy. I feel like she just ambandoned me. I don't know how long it would take to get over this. i wish someone could tell me.
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Post by raven32007 on Nov 4, 2009 12:13:18 GMT
I should have been more specific about it
so how long does it take to get over someone her name was kathy.
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Post by joellafaith on Jan 14, 2010 15:55:20 GMT
i have never been dumped before. I loved her so much, it got to the point where I wanted to start doing something that is not a good thing to do. I ended up cutting myself over it, I know what the hell Kate. But I just love her so much, and she dumped me for another girl...what the hell is up with that? Then I had to go and ruin a great friendship...we are both in the wrong here...I just don't know what to do anymore. im sorry |
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