WHAT DO I DO?!!!

[CharmedSister1097]

i wanted to know if you guys could help me. there is this new girl at my school. she follows me and my friends around the school. she has the same stuff to talkm about over and over and she's so ANNOYING! im trying to be nice but i just cant take it ANYMORE!!!! what should i do?

[Holly`s Boy]

Pull her aside and tell her why she`s anoying.
Explain to her that you want to be friends but she needs something else to talk about tell her read a book or news paper. If that does`nt work wack her with a stick then she`ll have something else to talk about but probably won`t want to be friends

[~Liz~]

Yep I totally agree with JCK1105 that's what you need to do.

[Hollyfreak]

Yea like JCK1105 said but you could also try to change the subject so she may talk about that cause I think she probaly has nothing to talk about since she says the same thing over and over

~Tink~

[~Liz~]

I know how it feels to be followed this happened to me and my friends last year it was extremely creepy.

[HollyHolic]

Well, let's see, um, you should do what they^ said. Just tell her nicely...

[~Liz~]

Yeah it's like I can't say anything cause everyone else said what i'd say.

[CharmedSister1097]

thanks everybody i mean im trying really hard but she'll come up and follow me and my friends down the hall and listen to our conversations and ill tyr and tell her a story and she get's all confused and dosen't kno what i said after i repeated it like 5 times! and on top of all that i recently found out that she follows my other friends around and is annoying to them too! I was also told that NOBODY ON OUR TEAM OF STUDENTS LIKES HER. I MEAN NOBODY!!!!

[littleholly]

imagine how hard it must be to be new and have no friends be patient with her and try to help or tell her as nicely as possible that u dont think the two of u can be friends just remember u r not the only 1 who is feeling uncomfortable xx

[~Liz~]

Did you try talking to her yet? I really don't know what else to say.

[CharmedSister1097]

I actually did try talking to her. I asked her to please stop following me and my friends around the school because it was getting kind of annoying. I took what all of you said/suggested and also thought about what Little Holly said and i tried to be sypathetic. but it obviously did'nt work because what i said must have went through one ear and out the other. She switched her seat in science and now sits next to me. she is now flirting with my friend's boyfriend and if my friend finds out i won't have to worry about her anymore because she'll probably get jumped and switch schools. but ill talk to her again. maybe this time she will get the message i really dont want to be friends.

[littleholly]

if she still wont understand wat u r sayin then mayb the direct approach is the best way bein "jumped" is not the solution no matter wat is happenin as long as ur friends b/f stays away from this girl then ur friend has nothing to worry about make sure that w/e happens this girl does not end up in danger or it cud just turn out that u and ur friends are the ones in trouble be supportive but firm when u r dealing with her, even those who r slow to catch on will get the msg without anyway getting hurt xx

[CharmedSister1097]

thanks. ill try that. she's lucky that my broke up with her boyfriend because she was in danger with that. lol

[~Liz~]

Yeah what Little Holly said once again, Little Holly says the right thing.

[littleholly]

lol thanks i think i try to help but sumtimes i get things wrong lol, its always important 2 just always do ur best xx