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Post by hollyslittlestar on Oct 3, 2004 11:45:55 GMT
Hey there Pipercookie r u sure that he has dumped u or maybe he was pretendin!!!!If he has,who cares about boys!!!!We don`t need em!!!!And good luck with your maths test!!!!hollyslittlestar
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Post by Julie on Oct 6, 2004 17:09:50 GMT
Mercy,
How old is your friend? I would probably help if you could get her to go to the Principal to file a complaint about the other students. Also, are her parent's involved? A situation like this often requires parental involvement for it to get the attention it needs!!
Let us know how it is going!
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Post by Mercy on Oct 6, 2004 22:59:33 GMT
Her parents are like the parents you see on telivision. They're always serene, they believe in tranquility, and pretty much only that. They have 'faith' that the situation will reverse, and she will no longer be the center of negative attention. I've gone to the principal, and she helped for a while, but kids are smart enough to do what they're doing in front of an adult.
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Post by Julie on Oct 7, 2004 14:42:28 GMT
Keep Supporting your friend and try to help her seek help when needed. Unfortunately, if the parents do not help your options are limited. Help your friend learn to deal with it in a positive way and both of you stay on the good side.
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charmedfreak5063
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Post by charmedfreak5063 on Oct 9, 2004 2:05:50 GMT
i think its great that u care about her enough to ask for advice and what i think is if she wont stand up for her self maybe you should do it for her and what i can say (from personal experiance) is that when you feel like crap some times the only thing that can help is a friend who will listen and and have a sholder for u to cry on
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Post by ~Liz~ on Oct 11, 2004 22:05:59 GMT
Well. My Uncle is in Iraq. I have another Uncle who is dieing from cancer. I also know someone who just had a baby a family friend and her baby boy has lost weight since he was born. I think that's all.
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Post by ♥Jaelynn♥ on Oct 11, 2004 22:25:35 GMT
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Post by Julie on Oct 13, 2004 21:16:08 GMT
Wow that is a lot to handle!! Have you dated anyone else? In situations like this it is good to get out and test the waters. Sometimes you discover that your feelings for that person are not as strong as you thought when you date someone new.
If he is still seeing other people then he is not ready to commit to you. You need to take care of yourself and not stay in a situation where you are continuing to get hurt!!
Keep us up to date on what is happening!!
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Post by hollys generation on Oct 14, 2004 15:02:21 GMT
Hi I am feeling down because my boyfriend has just dumped me even though we have been out for 2 years and I no u wont care but our relation meant a lot 2 me.Please tell me wot 2 do! pipercookiexxx Hi megan I just want to know when did daniel dump u was it when we were at school?
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Post by hollys generation on Oct 14, 2004 15:11:56 GMT
I need some advice, I'll start from the begginning. I have this one super-duper friend named Caylee. She's the sweetest person you could meet. The problem is that she studders and often blanks out. You know how some people are, right? She never get's any peace. A group of six kids call her names, push her only the ground, trip her. Okay, Okay. I've gone to many teachers and the principal and asked for their help, but they can't always be around. She's ignored them, god she's ignored them. But they don't stop. Even if she doesn't make a reaction when they talk, they still taunt her. It's been going on for months. And they're not gonna stop. So, I went a little over board when they called her a - Ugh- One of the most hateful things you could call a person. Teacher's only seem to listen when fists are used, but language..nope. So me and one of the guys got detention for 3 weeks, but they still trip her, push her...What should I do? I used to get bullied and i know what it is like.I got the same treatmend as ur friend there and i didnt like it.I just went to my mum told her and she went to the princables office and she yelled at them for being idiots and not taking what i tried to say under cocideration.It still went on and the girl was my friend but her friend bullied me and she took tht girls side and joined her she then got a group of friends to gang up on me saying i called them B*****s and i didnt.So tell ur friend from me just to say to her mum what is happening and i hope she will listen.If she needs any help give her this email ashley_herkes10@hotmail.com. Ashleyxxx
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Post by ~Liz~ on Oct 14, 2004 22:04:21 GMT
Well. My Uncle is in Iraq. I have another Uncle who is dieing from cancer. I also know someone who just had a baby a family friend and her baby boy has lost weight since he was born. I think that's all. Please someone help me. can't stand it anymore. I really miss my Uncle I also am so sad for my Uncle with cancer his name is Uncle thingy and well I haven't seen him since before he got cancer. I am worried that I won't see him till he dies. Oh my brother I miss alot too. He moved to the Cities away from us and now without him ther and not beign able to talk to him as much I hurt. I hurt so much right now. what am I going to do. Somebody please help me.
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Post by ♥Jaelynn♥ on Oct 15, 2004 0:11:12 GMT
Wow that is a lot to handle!! Have you dated anyone else? In situations like this it is good to get out and test the waters. Sometimes you discover that your feelings for that person are not as strong as you thought when you date someone new. If he is still seeing other people then he is not ready to commit to you. You need to take care of yourself and not stay in a situation where you are continuing to get hurt!! Keep us up to date on what is happening!! Well, there is this guy that i am talking too, but it is nothing serious. but what i dont understand is why he would do that to me, i mean before we knew we liked each other we were best friends and now i havent talked in almost two years!! the only way i know about all this is because his grandma calls me all the time and she tells me this, now she has no idea how i feel about him that is why she tells me this. now i love her to death she is just like my own grandma, but i can only take so much of this imean i have to cover the phone while i talk to her so she cant hear me crying. How do i tell her without sounding rude or hurting her feelings??
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Post by BigHollyFan on Oct 17, 2004 18:12:11 GMT
I am currently dealing with my Grandmother who has Alzheimer's Disease Julie my grandma is 89 and she has alzheimer's as well. it is hard cuz she has no idea who i am. and she accuses me of being a stranger-- it hurts.
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Post by BigHollyFan on Oct 17, 2004 18:14:26 GMT
Please someone help me. can't stand it anymore. I really miss my Uncle I also am so sad for my Uncle with cancer his name is Uncle thingy and well I haven't seen him since before he got cancer. I am worried that I won't see him till he dies. Oh my brother I miss alot too. He moved to the Cities away from us and now without him ther and not beign able to talk to him as much I hurt. I hurt so much right now. what am I going to do. Somebody please help me. dont worry! you will see your uncle before (if) he dies!!! your parents/guardian will see to that!
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Post by hollys generation on Oct 17, 2004 18:14:33 GMT
Hi Im Holly Generations Mum. Just read about your friend and having been bullied believe me these people are nothing but out and out cowards. One thing about gangs is they have a ringleader... word from a wise man (my dad) get them you get the gang. She needs to get ringleader on his/her own and deal with them. Once she does this the rest will all fall into place.
I'm not a fan of fists or name calling, trump card is get info on the person that makes them vulnerable. Can take time but worth it for the results.
Keep ears low to the ground... that's where the info is and remember parents may know something you dont (that's where my info came from) always worth talking to them. I was made to confront one to one in a group situation . The girl walked away in tears, no fighting no cursing just facts....
Good luck sending you hugs in hard times xxxxxxxxx
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